When Pets are Targeted in Domestic Violence

If you live in fear of an abuser, one of your best friends and sources of comfort may be a beloved pet. Pet lovers know that the love of a pet is one of the most companionable and satisfying relationships around—why else would so many people treat their pets as though they are human children? So when an abusive partner targets your pet in order to control you, it can be more than terrifying: it can be heart wrenching.

It’s More Common than You Think 

Abusers know how much their victims cherish their pets, and they use this knowledge to intimidate and control. The correlation between domestic violence (DV) and pet abuse is stunning. Studies indicate that three out of every four victims in domestic violence shelters say their pets had been threatened, harmed, or even killed by their abusers. Astonishingly, children witnessed this pet abuse in 90 percent of cases.

Victims Can’t Leave Their Pets 

In many situations, victims of DV simply cannot stomach the thought of leaving their pets behind, fearing that abandoning these beloved animals would be a death sentence for the pet. Thus, many victims stick with their abusers long after they would have liked to start a new life. In fact, a whopping 97 percent of those surveyed report that keeping their pets with them is a critical factor in deciding whether to leave their abusers. Nine in ten victims of DV say they rely on their pet for emotional support and/or physical protection, and their pets are a huge part of their survival and healing.

Suggestions for Keeping Pets Safe 

For those who want to escape a dangerous situation, but who fear leaving their pets behind, know that there are some shelters that allow pets. If there isn’t one around you, there are some options to consider if you have to temporarily part with your pet:

• Find a trusted friend or relative who can support you by caring for your pet until you get on your feet.
• Keep an emergency kit for your pet ready to go, containing essentials like food, toys, vaccination records, and any medications they may need.
• Maintain accurate health records so transitioning to a new home, veterinarian, or pet shelter will not leave gaps in the pet’s care.
• Pay attention to things like microchipping. Make sure your abuser is not listed as a contact for the pet.

The Legal Help You Need 

If you are suffering domestic violence, please understand that you deserve better, and at The Law Office of Julia Kefalinos, our Miami domestic violence lawyers can help. To discuss your situation, schedule a confidential consultation in our office today.

Source:

safehouse.org/pets-in-domestic-violence-situations/